{"id":256,"date":"2021-12-03T15:52:28","date_gmt":"2021-12-03T08:52:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/phamxuanhai.com\/?p=256"},"modified":"2021-12-03T15:52:30","modified_gmt":"2021-12-03T08:52:30","slug":"ki-vong-vien-vong-mot-dieu-can-co","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/phamxuanhai.com\/?p=256","title":{"rendered":"K\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng vi\u1ec3n v\u00f4ng – \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng"},"content":{"rendered":"Reading Time: <\/span> 7<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/span>\n

B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c k\u00ec v\u1ecdng phi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a Hebert Liu tr\u00ean trang Fast Company<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 80 c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb. Nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c Jaime Escalante \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y gi\u1ea3i t\u00edch t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t \u1edf \u0110\u00f4ng LA. Ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 55%. Escalante v\u00e0 l\u1edbp gi\u1ea3i t\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1ee3c danh ti\u1ebfng cho ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. S\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ec thi gi\u1ea3i t\u00edch AP \u1edf t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 r\u1ea5t cao.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ra m\u1eaft. Khi \u0111\u00f3, Dolores Kohl Solovy v\u00e0 Patricia Brieschkeis \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCon c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ec v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ta n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc tin v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? N\u1ebfu t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec1u tin v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3?\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Khi s\u1ef1 k\u00ec v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u00ec v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. Th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang ta \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh (ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c). N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u00ec v\u1ecdng. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh\u201d; \u201cM\u00ecnh th\u1eed n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec nh\u1ec9?\u201d; hay \u201cM\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y\u201d, b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 huy\u1ec5n ho\u1eb7c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ebfm khi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u1edfi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 sau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea7m tho\u1ea3ng qua. Khi m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Di\u2019Zhon Chase r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc \u1edf Havard; c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0i nghi. Chase n\u00f3i trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n v\u1edbi t\u1edd New York Times: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHavard kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n – b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u1ea5t t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 trong Gallup. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u1edf b\u1ecdn t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Seth Godin \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft trong blog c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKhi v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta (truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng, c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i) n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng, \u2018nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u2019, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ch\u00fang ta. L\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i (ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, \u2018ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1eadu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1eadu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1eadu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t?\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n cho k\u00ec v\u1ecdng<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Trong 18 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi, t\u00f4i ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eb5n v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i Ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe: \u201cH\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 Ch\u00faa s\u1ebd lo nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i\u201d. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a l\u1ea1c quan c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a bi quan. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eb5n. Trong c\u1ea3 hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng. T\u00f4i v\u1eeba kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eeba kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec trong n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i r\u00fat ra khi \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 gi\u00fap. Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0a ra: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0, b\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng may l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 khi l\u1ea1i \u0111i qu\u00e1 xa v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edfng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat ni\u1ec1m tin th\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ea3 bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng cho b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng trong t\u00f4i theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1 l\u00e0 k\u00ec l\u1ea1. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft l\u00fd t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i: cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec c\u1ea3. B\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 l\u1edbp, theo \u0111\u00f3, l\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho n\u00f3. Nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t \u00e2m m\u01b0u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0i nghi. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i t\u1eadp tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi cho m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m h\u1ecdc sinh 17 tu\u1ed5i \u0111ang m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111ang l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m may m\u1eafn. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ef1c k\u00ec mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham gia. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t doanh nh\u00e2n gi\u00e0u kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m trong ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 thi. H\u00e3y l\u1ea5y ti\u1ec1n h\u1ecdc ph\u00ed, tham gia c\u00e1c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o, v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng g\u1eb7p tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 chi\u1ebfm tr\u1ecdn t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i, n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng g\u1ee3i \u00fd \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m cho k\u00ec v\u1ecdng<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng k\u00ec v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a khi \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m th\u1ea5p. Nh\u01b0ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi doanh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i v\u1ef1c n\u00f3 d\u1eady. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n ch\u1eb3ng mong \u0111\u1ee3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u1ee3i \u00fd. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 nh\u01b0 Tyler Cowen vi\u1ebft:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTrong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn t\u1edbi nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 g\u1ee3i \u00fd h\u1ecd l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c tham v\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u00e1i m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t g\u00ec c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i \u0111em l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch l\u1edbn cho h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 to l\u1edbn.<\/em> <\/p>

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 Seth Godin \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cT\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a ra cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebf b\u00ean ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u1eebng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Gordon McKenzie l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u01a1n m\u01b0\u1eddi n\u0103m t\u1ea1i Hallmark Cards. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9c danh kh\u00e1 k\u00ec l\u1ea1: S\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o Ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0 tham v\u1ea5n v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. V\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed1t. M\u1ed9t \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u0103n m\u00e0 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n y\u00eau th\u00edch trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng – Orbiting the Giant Hairball<\/em><\/a>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u0110a ph\u1ea7n c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t nhanh n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi ra \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1ecb b\u1eafn h\u1ea1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdc l\u00f4ng, ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1nh. Khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i c\u00f3 v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng cho s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea cho \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch. M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d trong m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0 Jony Ive khi vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 Steve Jobs:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKhi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh, r\u1ea5t mong manh, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng linh thi\u00eang. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng hi\u1ebfm hoi – kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec1u mong manh. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m. C\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb nu\u1ed1t ch\u1eedng b\u1edfi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi. C\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 l\u00e0m r\u00f5, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1edf. Steve t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, d\u00f9 cho n\u00f3 c\u00f3 r\u1eddi r\u1ea1c v\u00e0 k\u00ec l\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u \u0111i n\u1eefa.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. M\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t n\u00e0o cho m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, ho\u1eb7c cho m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y ng\u1eebng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n \u00edt nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n th\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p Ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef1 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1eafm trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thu th\u1eadp kinh nghi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, n\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 10% th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 quan tr\u1ecdng, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i. H\u00e3y l\u1ea1c quan, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t k\u00ec v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u: \u0111i\u1ec3m ti\u1ebfp theo l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n m\u1edbi t\u1ea1o n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c trong trang<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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